Making a move to assisted living can be both exciting and intimidating. The older a person is or the longer they have lived in the same place, the more difficult it might be to accept these changes in life. Moving is one of the biggest stressors in life, but for somebody of advancing years who either may struggle with their activities of daily life or simply no longer wish to cook meals, clean the house, or maintain their living environment the way they had in the past, assisted living is a great elder care option.
Once an aging senior has committed to moving into assisted living, it’s important that they begin planning this transition as early as possible. It’s going to be difficult, without a doubt. However, family and friends and other loved ones can help to make this transition a bit smoother and easier for that aging senior.
Let’s look at three ways you might be able to help this elderly person in your life prepare and make the move to assisted living.
Make Sure They Have Assistance
A lot of people unfortunately try to do everything on their own. When you’re younger, that might not seem to be as big of a problem as it would in your 70s or 80s. If the elderly person has limited mobility, has lost strength or even balance, then trying to pack up and get ready to move is going to be more challenging.
If you’re a family member or other loved one and want to help, but don’t live close enough, what can you do?
There are plenty of organizations and even businesses that, for a fee, might be able to help. However, you will most likely find close friends, other family, and other people who live in the area who may be able to offer assistance, whether it’s to move boxes, carry furniture, or even help clean.
Encourage Them to Talk About Their Feelings
Some seniors feel as though elder care, like assisted living, was thrown at them without their say so. An elderly person should be encouraged to make this decision for themselves, without coercion.
Make sure they understand this is their decision. As long as they feel they still have control and autonomy in their life, they will feel empowered to make this important decision or, assuming they already made it, to feel good about it.
They don’t have to talk about it with you or another family member, per se, but they should be encouraged to at least talk about their feelings with someone, even if it’s a close friend, neighbor, or a professional.
Stay in Close Contact
You might not live close to this aging senior, but between phone, text, and email, there are more than ample ways to stay in close contact with the people who matter most to us.
Make a quick phone call every few days to check in. Send a text to let them know you’re thinking about them. And always remind them of why this is a great elder care choice, and that they are going to have a wonderful time living there.
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