Trying to decide whether your mother should be in a personal care home, or other assisted living facility can be a challenging task. The last thing you want is for your mother to be uncomfortable, frightened, and lonely. So you’ve taken the time, and determined that even though an in home care provider may have been a good option, with no neighbors and no friends around the area anymore, your mother would do best with some people her own age with whom to interact.
Now the date for moving in is approaching and you’re going to have a number of doubts. You’ll be second-guessing your decision, no matter what your mother says. Whatever you chose, you need to trust that you made the right decision, and hopefully you made it with your mother and not for her.
Now it’s time to get beyond these common feelings and focus on what your mother will need and what the assisted living staff will need to provide with regard to your mother’s care. It’s important that you provide all relevant and necessary medical information to them. Even if your mother is planning on living in a home on her own within the community, or moving into an apartment style home within a central building, the staff at the assisted living facility should have any and all pertinent information regarding her health history.
This should include any doctors that she sees regularly. This list should start with her primary care physician, gynecologist, orthotics specialist, physical therapist, and more. Many assisted living facilities provide transportation for their residents to doctors’ appointments across town, so they should have a clear understanding of what doctors she has, and when her appointments are. Even if you still plan on driving her to these appointments, you should still provide this information to them.
Also, be sure to have all of her prescription medications in order. If she has any prescriptions that need to be renewed within the next month, you’ll want to either renew them now, or make a clear note on a calendar so you’ll remember. During the move, things can become hectic, and you could forget about refilling it until you receive a call from someone at the assisted living facility asking you about it, which could be at any time during the day, or even at night, depending on the type of medication it is.
Any medical ailments, such as allergies, broken bones, infections, or anything else you think could be relevant should be noted on paper for anyone who may need it.
If you or an aging loved one are considering Assisted Living, contact Ashbury Manor Specialty Care and Assisted Living in Theodore AL at 251-317-3017.
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