May 8th is Mother’s Day this year. If your mother is struggling and would benefit from some type of elder care, you may have volunteered to support her, especially if you live in the area. However, assisted living is one of the best elder care options to consider for many good reasons.
Still, a lot of seniors have misconceptions about assisted living, don’t think it’s right for them, at least not at this point in their life, but if you are convinced this would be the best option for her moving forward, what might you give her for Mother’s Day this year that could help convince her?
Consider respite care stays.
Not all assisted living facilities will provide this option, but for those that do, it can be great at helping to convince those seniors that assisted living is truly an elder care option that maximizes quality of life.
What does it mean to offer respite care? Generally speaking, it means some type of short-term stay. Some assisted living communities, when they have space available, may allow aging seniors to sleep at their facility overnight.
This is a wonderful way for seniors to get to know other men and women their age during the evening hours and then sleep in a room surrounded by experienced staff members ready to help at any given time.
Maybe your mother only requires a little bit of assistance every once in a while. Yet, you might stress when you go home at night, wondering if she slipped getting out of bed or is facing some other dire challenge you won’t know about until the next time you call or stop by.
You could theoretically drop her off at assisted living in the evening and then pick her up the next morning to bring her back home. Many seniors realize just how much assisted living can provide as far as activity, companionship, and support through these overnight stay options.
Some other facilities may allow seniors to stay at their facility for a few days or a couple of weeks at a time. It all depends on availability, of course, but this may be one of the best gifts you can give your mother if you know -without a doubt- she would benefit from constant support and care.
What if you already brought up the topic of assisted living to her?
She might have shut it down. She may think you are simply trying to pass her off on someone else. That is patently false, but when you’re struggling with your physical abilities, health issues, and an uncertain future, you may have a tendency to lash out, even at the people you love the most.
In the past, though, you might have talked about assisted living as a permanent solution, not a temporary option. It may very well be time to revisit this, let her know she doesn’t have to give up her home at this stage in her life, but take advantage of the respite care options and see for herself just how amazing assisted living can be.
If you or an aging loved one are considering a move to an Assisted Living in Spanish Fort, AL, contact Ashbury Manor Specialty Care and Assisted Living at 251-317-3017.
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