Alzheimer’s can feel like a category five hurricane blasting into the shores of your life. For days, weeks, months, and possibly even a couple of years you noticed the signs, whether within yourself or someone you love. The winds started picking up, the birds fled for shelter, and you knew something bad was coming.
But nothing can really prepare a person to hear those words: you have Alzheimer’s.
Maybe it isn’t you, but a parent or spouse, or close friend who has recently been diagnosed with this form of dementia. It doesn’t matter because just like a hurricane blasts thousands of homes and can upend millions of lives in a day, so too can a diagnosis like this.
How to weather the storm.
Thankfully, when a person is first diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, it will generally still be in the early stages of the disease. While most people will progress through the different stages, some will go slower than others, but they will all move through a similar pattern.
That is why it is so critical to plan ahead. Just because the senior can take care of himself or herself for the most part right now doesn’t mean that will remain the case. And it might not remain the case for long.
Here are a few things you might consider when facing the impending and worsening storm of Alzheimer’s, either in your life or that of a family member.
1. Understand that things will get tougher.
It’s certainly nice to assume everything will be fine because this senior can manage his or her care by themselves right now, but it is going to get tougher. As long as you understand and accept that, focus on long-term care priorities.
2. Talk about those long-term care options.
As a family, whether it’s just between spouses, with adult children, friends, or others, discuss the realities of different long-term care options. Some people will prefer to remain home, but more and more begin to realize the value of a memory care assisted living facility.
Having that level of support on hand when the time comes could be incredibly beneficial, so discuss them among those you love.
3. View things from both perspectives.
That means from the senior’s as well as their family support system. Things aren’t just going to get tough for the senior with Alzheimer’s; it will also be tough on loved ones.
When you view the storm from both perspectives, memory care assisted living truly becomes a topic of value, and one to discuss before the storm actually makes landfall.
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