(A story from a friend)
Last year she tried to convince her father that he should consider assisted living. He didn’t want to hear it, even though he visited the doctors and hospitals more last year than at any other time in his life. Accepting nature, and learning that you’re not able to do some of the things that you used to be able to do before is not easy for most people. The older you get, the weaker your muscles and bones become. Your balance wanes, and you might not be able to see, or hear as well as you used to.
However, for millions of Americans, that doesn’t mean it’s time to give up the comforts of your home and trade it all in for assisted living. However, for some, an assisted living facility will offer far more than they could get from an occasional home care provider, or once in a while family caregiver.
A personal care home is designed to give an elderly person the support that he, or she needs in order to live a comfortable life, and have activities that they can choose (or choose not) to take part in.
There are various reasons why someone might feel that assisted living is the right option for them, so what might be some of the reasons that your father would benefit from living at an assisted living facility?
- Less maintenance. If your father is still trying to take care of the house that he’s lived in for forty years, he could be fighting a losing battle. Keeping up a homes require constant attention, otherwise they fall into disrepair. Sometimes it’s better to let go of an investment when you can no longer keep it in the best possible shape, than it is to let it fall apart around you.
- More people. At an assisted living facility, there are more people of the same age. There are various degrees of health, and physical condition, but there are also varying degrees of interests. Instead of staying home and hoping to find something that he could do, or wait for visitors, if he lived in a personal care home, your father might end up making new friends.
- New adventures. You never know what you’re missing out on until you try something. For your father, he could be missing out on conversations with people that are exciting and interesting, who share similar backgrounds, and much more.
Is this the year to seriously consider assisted living? It might be, but ultimately, that decision still belongs to your loved one. If you believe he or she will be better off in such a facility, do your homework and then convince them.
If you or an aging loved one are considering Assisted Living, contact Ashbury Manor Specialty Care and Assisted Living in Theodore AL, at 251-317-3017.
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